Is finally coming to the realisation that he has never been put first his whole life

He understands that he is a person used to fill a void in someone else’s life and then he will be dis guarded when he is not needed anymore

He would think that if he could make someone else happy he would be happy as a result but the opposite is true he feels used and abused defeated and drained

So feel for the nice guy because being a nice guy even if he wanted to be less nice he can’t he is not built that way. Don’t abandon him if he texts read the texts and reply

By doing something as simple as that you could be helping him in ways you never know